कान्तिपुर साप्ताहिकमा नियमित प्रकाशित हुने “लभ गुरु रेखा” स्तम्भको बारेमा तपाईलाई याद छ ? हो, ती लभ गुरु अरु कोही नभएर हाम्रै प्यारी नायिका रेखा थापा हुन !
आजकल साप्ताहिकमा प्रकाशित नभए पनि रेखाले हाम्रा पाठकहरुको प्रेम सम्बन्धी प्रश्नहरुको उत्तर दिने बचन दिएकी छिन । उनको व्यस्तताका कारण धेरै प्रश्नको उत्तर दिन नसके पनि कम्तिमा प्रत्येक हप्ता एक प्रश्नको उत्तर दिनलाई अनुरोध गरिएको छ । तपाईंको पनि प्रेम सम्बन्धी प्रश्न छन् भने कृपाय यस पेजमा लेखेर पठाउनु होला ।
A 20 years-old guy living in a jail is in love with a woman. She used to comes to meet him in jail and continues to do so. But, she also talks about another guy and acts different. Has she started not loving the guy?
A Hindu guy loves a Muslim girl and the girl’s family is ok with the marriage. The guy’s elder brother objects on the affair and suggested to end the relationship. He is seeking help on what to do on the issue.
Rekha answers – Inter cast and inter-religion marriage is legal. But, the society might not accept such relationship if one is not strong and independent. It seems the questioner is dependent on his brother or family and they can dictate what he does. In such case the person should make himself independent and make his own decision.
Q. Because of our caste difference, our 5-year long love affair ended when her parents married my girlfriend to another person in the same village. The girlfriend found out later that he is a drunkard and she doesn’t like him. Now, she wants to marry me. What can we do in such situation?
A. First you need to determine if the married relationship between them is really in trouble. If that is the case, you need to suggest them to get separated legally to open door to your marriage. Read the full reply in Nepali in the attached copy:
Love Guru Rekha is one of the main attraction of Kantipur’s weekly magazine ‘Saptahik’. This question and answer dates back to the early 2009. Summary of question and answer:
Q. My ex-girlfriend has left me after a year-long relationship because her parents wanted her to marry another guy. (JB)
A. You need to respect your ex-girlfriend’s decision to leave you. You can request her to meet and talk about the exact reason she has left you. But, you should know that love can’t be won by force. If nothing works you should live your life and let her live hers. (read the full conversation in Nepali, below)