Q. Because of our caste difference, our 5-year long love affair ended when her parents married my girlfriend to another person in the same village. The girlfriend found out later that he is a drunkard and she doesn’t like him. Now, she wants to marry me. What can we do in such situation?
A. First you need to determine if the married relationship between them is really in trouble. If that is the case, you need to suggest them to get separated legally to open door to your marriage. Read the full reply in Nepali in the attached copy:
Chhabi Raj Ojha, the producer of Rajesh Hamal’s debut movie “Yug Dekhi Yug Samma” in BS 2040, was searching for a lead actress of his movie “Hero” in BS 2057. At that time, Sajja Mainali had done a very good job in “Yestai Hunchha Pirati” of producer Sagar Dhungel. Chhabi with his friend Naresh Poudel went to Sagar Dhungel’s office to meet Sajja and talk about his interest to feature her in his movie.
While waiting to meet Sagar Dhungel in his office, Chhabi was reading the magazines on the table. When he saw a photo of the Miss Koshi of that time in one of the magazines, he identified her as his lead actress. Chhabi left Sagar’s office without meeting him.
The Miss Koshi of 2057, Rekha Thapa, was in grade 10 at that time. When Rekha’s mother received the phone call from film producer Chhabi Ojha, she couldn’t believe her ears. An appointment was fixed and Rekha was to meet Chhabi in his office. But, when she went to his office, she was asked to come the following day by a not-so-pleasent lookign man. Rekha thought the guy (Naresh Poudel) to be Chhabi himself. She didn’t like the guy and decided she won’t do movie with that guy. But, Chhabi called again and asked her to come to his office. Whe Rekha refused by telling that her home was far from his office, Chhabi offered to pick her up.
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